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He strives to see in their eyes their admiration and adulation, the awe and fear that he inspires, the approval and affirmation that he elicits.
There is no substitute to human contact, even for the narcissist.
Many narcissists try to carry online relationships they nurtured into their logical extension and conclusion offline.
Other burst upon the cyber scene intermittently, vanishing for long months, only to dive back in and reappear, reinvigorated.
Transference (and counter-transference) are quite common on the Net and the narcissist's defence mechanisms notably projection and Projective Identification are frequently aroused.
The therapeutic process is set in motion by the unbridled, uncensored, and brutally honest - reactions to the narcissist's repertory of antics, pretensions, delusions, and fantasies.
Both, if minimally communicative, end up at the instantly gratifying epicenter of a cult of fans, followers, stalkers, erotomaniacs, denigrators, and plain nuts.
It allows the narcissist to enact and act out his grandiose fantasies of omnipotence and omnipotence, brilliance and perfection, self-righteousness and superiority with impunity.Many moderators and owners of discussion groups and support forums, for instance, are tyrannical narcissistic bullies with little or no impulse control and the tendency to form cult-like settings where the wayward are sadistically penalized and publicly humiliated by peers for speaking out of turn and in contravention of the party line.